The world is full of people who follow the rules and wait in line. The Tatlubaaz is the one who finds the side door, befriends the bouncer, and is sipping a drink while everyone else is still waiting outside.
You don’t need a suit, but you need "crisp." Whether you are wearing a tuxedo or a t-shirt, look like you chose to wear it. A Tatlubaaz commands respect by looking like they have somewhere better to be, but have graciously decided to stay here with you. tatlubaaz
If you mess up, don’t say "I’m sorry." That admits defeat. Use the pivot: The world is full of people who follow