If you are looking for the specific phrase about a "husband," you might be thinking of the context of the song "All I Ask of You" or the reprise, where the Phantom refers to Raoul (Christine's love interest) in a negative light, often implying he is a fool or mocking his role as a "husband" figure.
I looked at Sarah, and she smiled. "You're okay," she said. "You're going to be okay." the husband who is played broken
This is the husband who is played broken. If you are looking for the specific phrase